I have been married to my wife for 3 years, we love each other very much, we are very open and honest, our sex life was great until we had our first son, 2 months later it stopped, she says she just doesn't think about sex or want to have sex with me or any one, we make out a lot, and fool around but no sex, other than that were very happy. After 8 months of no sex I found a woman on cl who wanted a nsa sex buddy, we met, she was very nice, and the second my dick went inside her my brain panicked, my dick went limp and I came with no orgasm, I did not enjoy it. I felt nauseas and sick, I got up peeled the rubber off and left. My question is- was it cheating? You can cheat without having sex, can you have sex and not cheat? Its like I wasn't there, I would never do it again! I love my wife very much.

It has been 6 years since my first and last confession. I did not tell everything so I lied to the father .Then I was baptized again a Roman Catholic. This is what I told him then April 2005, I have had sex with almost 100 different women ,I hurt people to gain dominance as a gang member ,I stole small things candy baseball cards and I lied and told stories about other people that were not true .Here is what I left out I had oral sex with a man for promise of a job .I masturbated to the thought of having sex with my grandmother ,my mother, my sister ,my female cousins , and my aunts. I tried to have inter course wit a female cousin but did not. I had oral sex with a dog . I tried to have intercourse with a dog but did not. What I have done since then sex UN wed .oral sex wit a man who I believed was a women and when I found out other wise I let him continue that’s it .

I hate myself completely. I don't really know why this is, but I cant look in the mirror without being angry or disgusted. Everytime I close my eyes I picture the many ways I could die. On one hand it's comforting, believing that peace is there. On the other, it's confusing. What is wrong with me? The worst part is that I'm alone through all of this. I tried to tell my wife (the person whom I am closest to in this world), and it scared her too much. Now I'm locked up inside my own messed up mind. I cant think without feeling attacked by my own mind. Filled with thoughts of hopelessness, self hatred, and self destruction. I don't want happiness anymore, just peace.

I lie a lot, and i dont feel people whould like me as much if i didnt.

I'm terrified of my own mind. I like to think of myself as strong and a good daughter/friend, and I know that I am, to the best of my ability. But for the past few months I've just hated my own body so much. I'm always dreaming that anorexia is the answer even though I know it's not. I want to be thin. I want to be weightless, empty and most importantly, I want to be happy. I know this sounds cliche and pathetic, but it's eating me up inside. I've got my life ahead of me, and I just want to be skinny. That's all.

there's this guy ive always liked and couldnt get over. i got so excited when i found out he liked me! but when we started talking and hanging out, i was involving myself in drinking, smoking, etc. and turning into a whole different person. i could tell my friends even started to hate me. one night i got sick at his house and he stopped talking to me for a long time. since he wasnt the best guy, i thought i could let him go, but no, i went right back to him and said we could still have sex. now i feel like im desperate and going to be used. i need to find a way to leave and forget about this guy but idk what to do!!!

I hate ugly people. I work in customer service and I try my darnedest to avoid all the folks who I consider ugly. I am not all that attractive myself and I know that no one can help the way they look but I still can't help but hold it against them and wish they stay out of sight.

I'm sorry to say that I think I'm falling out of love with my boyfriend and there's little that can be done about it. I've told him that I'm no longer happy in our relationship, and we agreed to try to work on it. but now, I'm afraid that no matter what we do, I don't think my feelings for him are ever going to be like they used to, and I feel terrible about it. I am going to see him in a few days, and maybe seeing him will give me a better perspective. At the same time, I'm noticing that I'm leaning towards the idea of not being in a relationship for awhile, or at least meet new people. I'm already thinking about this guy I met recently that i barely know and probably has no interest in me, but I can't help it. It's just a simple physical attraction. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel awful. It would suck to throw away a relationship that lasted a little over a year, but why stay where I'm not all that happy? I'm so sorry.