I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years. I want nothing more than for him to die in the worst, most horrible firey car accident in the history of car accidents.

I've been best friends with a girl for years. I've told her everything. Now I'm wondering how I could have told her the big secrets when even my little everyday experiences were dissected, criticized, lectured, and shamed. I'm non-religious (having grown up with an abusive father who was a preacher) while she follows her religion more like a superstition. We have so many good memories, but I can't take any more of her (genuinely clinically diagnosed) manic depressive, bipolar insanity. But how do I gently remove her from my life? I'm concerned that confronting her would send her into suicidal depression.

I'm the most adamant person at catching shoplifters and scammers at the store i work at, yet i've stolen thousands of dollars worth of merchandise over the years...GPS's MP3 players, video games, countless amounts of headphones. am thinking of getting hired as an assets protection officer but i have a feeling if i was trusted with that much responsibility i would be tempted so much that i would steal something and not cover my tracks well enough that i would get caught and arrested.

I am completely in love with my best friend. It's a common story, I know. When I first met her, back in Feb, we instantly connected as genuine friends. I soon took a more serious interest in her but found out she had also taken an interest in someone else & they began dating. I repressed my feelings because I'm not one to break people up & I didn't want to build up fruitless idealism about what could be. For 5 months I succeeded in taking our relationship as a friends only situation. I've gotten closer to her than anyone I have ever known. I feel more like myself with her than with people I've grown up with from childhood. Then, for the 1st time, I met her boyfriend one night when we were out some other friends. Seeing her with him in a romantic state triggered something in me & I couldn't hold back anymore. I fought off the feelings of longing & loving for a month or so but then I feel head over heels. She's still with the same guy & I cant shake how I feel for her.. nor do I want to.

Two years ago, I dated a girl who I thought I was in love with. The love turned into lust when we started having sex. We were together for about a year and a half when I ended my relationship with her on a very bad note. To this day, I still think about her every so often, and occasionally have a dream about her. Unfortunately I never apologized to her, and I'm really not sure if I should or not, but I feel like it's tearing me up on the inside.

I allow people to use me. I get myself to believe that they care about me, they say they care about me, but in all honesty, I can't believe that anymore. A friend of mine who I was in love with and shared a bed with on several occasions (non sexual, we just wanted to sleep next to someone) has hurt me twice intentionally and maliciously. I'm 3 years older than her. I was old enough to move out on my own to the next town and had an abusive family life. I saw a way out and took it. I kept in touch as best I could without a phone or internet. I come back and she avoided me in favor to make me feel bad about me moving. We made up over the next year. a month ago, she broke off the friendship again and moved out of the apartment we share (her stuff is still here) and now that she's out of state, I still feel responsible and want her to do well, even going so far as to call and see how she is. I don't know why I'm hurting myself like this. She's bad for me but I can't let go.

i love my girlfriend but the fact that it's been almost 2 years with very little physical intimacy bugs me. i've had sex before her and ive already cheated 3 times, the latest with my best friend (whos a girl). i would love to continue with my girlfriend but i find it difficult because she doesnt take it seriously enough to go the extra mile for me. we're currently in a long distance relationship because im at college and shes still a senior in high school. she never calls, never emails and still hasnt installed the webcam i bought for her. im in really close contact with my best friend though and some of our conversations can be very borderline cheating. im wondering if i should just give up on my gf and get with my friend...

I want to change my girlfriend in so many ways. I dont mean physically, but in the little things she does. She all most never smiles, she is not sociable with my friends and family, she likes bringing her dad on every little outing we have, she smothers me with texts and calls. allways fishes for compliments and reassurance that i love her and want to spend time with her. She never initiates intimacy and i mean NEVER. She allways wants me to spend the night and i hate sleeping in her bed. our sex life is horrible, but i fear that i might not find someone that is willing to be with me for a long time. I know for a fact this relationship will never lead to marriage, but i also dont want to end it just because i know it wont last. Is it wrong of me to harbor these feelings and smile through my teeth?