About 7 months ago, the girl I had been dating for a year and a half dumped me, and I feel like I am over her... for the most part. Every once in awhile I get this terrible urges, not really I want her back urges, more just pure rage about what happened. I am positive she is 'sleeping with' someone who used to be my friend. They have told me that they aren't, but I don't believe it. Normally I don't ever acknowledge I have any feelings at all for her anymore, I feel like a normal 20 year old guy. Today is one of those times I just feel enraged. Currently, she is in my other room, sitting with a large majority of my friends. I left because I couldn't deal with it anymore. I am positive I do not want her anymore, but I can not help the feeling of wanting to put my fist through a wall....

I think my mom is only a christian because I'm gay. We talk about God all the time since I came out, but little before. Recently I decided that it was also important to realize that I am an atheist and have been for a long time. My mom is getting increasingly hateful and I have to keep telling myself I love her. The thing is when my mom treats me like this, (I'm 19) I want to kill myself. I've never been suicidal before... It seems crazy, but I think like if I killed myself I could get her back. Like she'd have to love me.

I am in love with a guy. FYI for all you astrology followers...he's a Capricorn and I'm a Gemini. He's a jazz musician in a famous band and the first time he invited me to a concert, I stood him up. We made contact again, he invited me to a concert, came to stay with me in Atlanta and I have been to stay with him at his place in Louisiana. I know he likes me but hasn't admitted it yet. I am 37 and he's 36 - neither of us has ever been married. I'm tired of playing games. It's like we're both waiting for the other to admit to this feeling. Should I go first or wait for him. I want him to love, value and respect me. This is first time I've ever really cared enough for a man that I don't want to change anything about him. He's perfect. Please advise.

Sometimes I wonder whether or not I want to stay with my fiance. He's so absorbed in his activities he doesn't have -time- to help me with our daughter or take the time to really learn. Apparently Sports Betting and Poker are more important then us.

I often fantasize of losing my memory. Some how getting hit in the head and not being able to remember all the things that happened to me. I hate remembering everything that happened. I wish to god that I couldn't remember. I wish so, so, sooo bad.

I've had eating issues since I was 12. They never went away, and today I still regularly binge and purge. I know it's bad for me, and I'm screwing up my body, but it's too embarrassing to ask for help from my parents, and I can't afford counseling on my own. But this time I'm stopping for good. Seriously.

I want to control a woman. I am a normal, average-to-good looking guy who has always had -normal- relationships. But I want to experience a dominating, almost anonymous exchange. Not degrade her, but control her. And I feel I can't do this with a girlfriend because the trust she would have eliminates the element of danger....I only hope that this isn't too sick to want.

Ever since my daughter was born the relationship between my husband and I has been terrible and sometimes I want to leave him. I do not believe in divorce and don't want that for my daughter, but sometimes the problems are so overwhelming and my attraction to my husband is so little that I don't know why I stay in the relationship.