I tell people I have morals because I'm not pretty enough to be a slut.

I've been dating someone in the Army for 5 months now, & I seriously consider a long life with him. I'm going to be moving in with him for about 3-5 months before he goes to Iraq, possibly in June, for a whole year. After his deployment, it will be his last year serving. I have a severe problem with abandonment ever since my mom left when I was 5 years old, & although he, technically, isn't abandoning me.. it will feel like it every now & then. My friends tell me to just get a job & to keep busy with my social life. I'm just wondering if anyone has some kind of advice, encouragement or supporting words they could offer? Anyone who is dealing with this same issue, or are currently in a long distance relationship themselves, would probably be most beneficial hearing from. Thank you.

I'm a teen mom and although I love my daughter so much it hurts some times...every now and then I just wish I was normal. I sometimes resent my husband because I'm probably never going to have sex with anyone else...and I'm not really that into men in general. I realize that no one else on earth is going to put up with me and I'm pretty sure he only does because he can't do better but I still wish I'd had time to be a crazy slut before I got fat and domesticated. Part of me thinks that perhaps I should still be on the drugs and in therapy but I don't have time or the brain cells to do either. And since I'm so much better than I used to be (read I'm stable) the majority of me says screw it. If I think about anything from before my daughter was born for more than a minute or so I generally burst into tears. I used to be smart, and pretty, and social, and have a life of my own and an identity of my own. Now I'm just Mommy. I resent my daughter sometimes and I hate myself for it.

i pick my nose, with my boyfriends toothbrush.

I secretly want to tenderly make love to most of my female friends.

I have stolen money from my work. A lot. I used the money to keep my bills paid. While I have stopped I worry that I will be found out and lose my job. I pray for forgiveness as I cant change the past only from today on.

I used to be an emotional overeater, and havent been in years. Recently though.. within the patt month I cant seem to stop again. I feel depressed and sad a lot and feel like I cant get control of myself. I have had self body issues my entire life, since grade 5. All I've ever wanted is to be thin.. really thin. But I dont know how to get control of what I eat. I'm not fat, I am average and noone has really had issues with the way that I look. I weigh 145 pounds and am 5'7 but am worried that I'll get way bigger. My mom used to be really overweight, I dont want to be like that. I just want to be happy. What can I do?

I lied today in conversation a few times. Most notable lie was when i indicated to someone that i was still employed and am not. I ate more than I should have and worked less than i should have.