I've been with my boyfriend for almost 9 years now. We had a misunderstanding 5 years ago (no cheating or anything) and he once told me that I am not the kind of woman he'd marry. Based SOLELY on the misunderstanding. It was rude and he actually apologized. I have everything going for me and prior to the 5 years he was interested in marriage to me. A few men over time have expressed interest, but I am with my boyfriend and I had to shut them down. It hurts (not like it first did) to know that the man I love and who I believe loves me, would say such a thing. When I bring it up sometimes, he shies away from the conversation because he said he doesn't like to see me hurt and his mind has not changed. He even shifted to - -maybe one day in the future-. I've not told anyone as they would be upset with him and wonder why I stay. I avoid wedding-related shows, websites, stores as it hurts. I don't desperately want to marry - it just hurts that someone I love doesn't see me in that light.

I've spent the last 10 years paying off my mortgage and my final payment is due this week. There's no feeling of joy or even relief - only regret. Regret that to do this on a single income has meant I've needed to live so frugally and I feel I've missed out on life's adventures. Hopefully I can make up for that now, but I'm not convinced this will be the case.

I never wanted to f**k before I was married as much as I wanna f**k now. In the very beginning, that's all we ever did. And now, half way through the marriage, after he had already turned me into an addict, his sex drive freaking dropped and died. yes, I've told him this, many of times. I've told him, I've asked him. Seems to be more sex deprivation for me than it does actually really gettin served and satisfied. It's fu*k*d up, it isn't right, and now I'm at that point where I'm almost begging someone to talk dirty to me and mind f**k me some how because I've turned on to porn because of my dissatisfied high a*s sex drive now. This is so fu*k*d up.

I had internet friends but I had this crush who is in my school. I told my internet friends about him and one of them texted him. At that point I got really scared. I didn't want to tell my crush that I had internet friends. He might think that is weird. I lied to him and told him that I knew these people because of my old school. I really feel guilty. When I meant the internet friends I used to do this thing called roleplay. I would be a character from my book. Should I tell him? I don't like hIm anymore but should I still tell him?

I'm infatuated with a man I work with. He's very smart, considerate, attractive. I'm about 7 years older than him. He has a girlfriend that he sort of lives with. I'm getting divorced, but it has nothing to do with this ridiculous crush. I keep fantasizing about the possibility of us being together, and I (mis)interpret his words and actions as indications that he returns my feelings. I sent him drunken text messages saying that I was -thinking- of him. He didn't reply, but did ask me about them later. I was so embarrassed, having convinced myself that he didn't get the texts. I didn't confess to having feelings for him - just apologized. That was over a year ago. To his credit, he didn't tell anyone and hasn't treated me any differently. I've never told anyone. My feelings for this man, inappropriate and irrational as they are, won't go away, even though I remind myself over and over that he doesn't have feelings for me. I feel like such an idiot.

I self harmed again after months of being clean. I regret it so much and my parents will be home soon.. I don't know how to cover them :(

I'm pregnant to a man that isn't my husband and I have no idea how to tell him. I feel like a worthless whore and I really regret what I've done. I sinned by breaking my marital vows, is it okay to sin again and abort the baby to possibly save my marriage or sdo I have to live with the consequences? I feel so lost and confused

ok so i been having some very strange feelings about my best friend's boyfriend. He has been an asshole that keeps on hitting on different sluts but when he is around my best friend he acts like this innocent guy that will love -forever- as he say. I seriously want to tell her but she is just too in love with him and i really don't to break her heart but again if i don't tell her that dumbshit will break her heart. I told one of my friends about it and she told him to leave them be and just let them -figure it out-. So really, should i tell my friend that he is not good for her or should i listen to my friend and let them be them?