i was raped repetitively by my sister growing up. I'm also a female, and I feel as though my assault was not valid, because she was only about 11-14 when it was happening. I dont really remember much about the year-ish it was happening, and I have basically forgotten how old I was and how old she was. She's completely fine now, and we're actually very close now. She's like my best friend, but I can never forget what she did.